Some years ago, my husband and I went to Washington State to visit my daughter and son-in-law and their family. It was a wonderful 9 days. At the time, my daughter, Rachel, had five children (she has 7 now). The oldest was about to turn 15 and the youngest was 6.
Mike and I were both struck by the wholesome activities that the children were involved in. This is especially important nowadays, with electronics being at the forefront. As you know, we see little ones, teens, and adults mesmerized in front of tablets and phones way too often.
Our grandchildren were in 4-H. We were there at the time of the fair where they showed the sheep that they had raised. The judges grade the sheep and the showmanship. There were many young boys and girls, aged 8-18, showing their sheep, steers, pigs, and more.
My 10-year-old granddaughter had a crazy lamb, and it went kinda nuts in the arena. It was 105 degrees, and my granddaughter was sweating buckets while trying to hold down her jumpy lamb and answer the judge’s questions. I was really proud of how she persevered. What a good life skill she was learning.
It was a great four days at the fair watching them show their sheep, but also seeing that they had to keep the pens of their animals clean, keep part of the building clean where their animals were, feed and water the animals regularly, and be ready to answer any questions that spectators would have. The teenagers were helping the younger children. Everyone worked together. Of course, the parents were there, keeping an eye on things and encouraging their children.
There were also fun events for all ages, like mud volleyball and football games, the rodeo, the parents showing the animal, and the kids judging, which was very funny. There were no rides at this fair, only exhibits and events.
The following days after the fair, when we were back at Rachel's house, we went on walks every day, played card games, swam, went to the river, and played volleyball and basketball. We would also watch a movie during the day.
So why am I writing all this besides just being a proud mom and grandma? Well, I feel for all you parents raising children today, where electronics are so prevalent. I didn't have to deal with that to the degree that you all have to.
I want to remind you that the great outdoors is just outside your door. God gave it to us to enjoy. Get outside! Take the children on hikes, to parks, swimming, etc. If it is hot, find some indoor activities at the library or gyms, splash pads, play board games, etc.
I know it is easy to just let the kids be on devices. Oh, the things you can get done, right? I understand, but it’s not good for the child. It doesn’t take long to get addicted to the screen.
I was recently impressed with a mother of four small children who told me she planned out every week of the summer for her and the children so that they wouldn't just be sitting around. It takes work, I know, but you won’t regret it! It creates so much bonding as a family, as well as providing wonderful memories that your children will look back on.
They grow up fast. Enjoy these precious years!
God bless you,
Mary Ann / Mother Hen